other party is not considered as his student, and or at least hedoes not accept this status for himself.

4- The discussion in which victory is the sign of excellenceand priority of the speaker and ruins the" excellence seeking" spirit of the other party.

5- The discussion, the purpose of which is proscription ofsome deeds of the other party or one of his relatives and friendsand or his beloved persons in the past or present.

6- The discussion which has become the substructure of histhoughts as a result of suggestion of surroundings or parentsand such like.

In all of above cases, ordinary controversial methods shouldnot be used for influencing on the mind and spirit of the otherparty. Rather, the applied methods should be absolutely apartfrom dispute.

Factors effective in influencing on the hearts

1- Seeking excellence in discussion or dispute andfussing

In the Islamic instructions, it is highly emphasized on themanner of discussion with people, specially with ignorant and low knowledge people, and the discussions which do not have any" fact seeking aspect" are prohibited under the title of" dispute and fussing". Even in some cases, discussion is absolutely forbidden.

Holy Quran says:.

وَلا تُجادِلُوا اهْلَ الْكِتابِ الَّا بِالَّتِي هِيَ احْسَنُ‌ ..

Dispute not with the People of the Book save in the fairermanner.. [1]

[1]TheSpidersura (92) ,verse 64