Praise and commendation more than merit and desert is flattery and less
than merit is either debility in expression or envy..
Brief description
Undoubtedly, the worthy individuals and their good attributes and deeds
should be praised and appreciated, and in this way we shall encourage and
support them in the way they are proceeding.
But this should be exactly in accordance with the merit of individuals.
Otherwise, it would have negative and harmful consequences. If it is more than
merit, is called flattery both hurting the dignity of speaker and also causing
self- conceit and self- admiration of the doers. And if it is less than merit,
discourages the good doers and shows envy or debility of speaker.
اسم الکتاب : يكصد و پنجاه درس زندگى المؤلف : مكارم شيرازى، ناصر الجزء : 1 صفحة : 60